Worried about your rights and how to protect them? Go to law school. Now is the time for bright, thoughtful people who want to make a different to study and arm yourself with the knowledge to help make the world a better place!
Worried about your rights and how to protect them? Go to law school. Now is the time for bright, thoughtful people who want to make a different to study and arm yourself with the knowledge to help make the world a better place!
Honored to have written the piece with my amazing colleague, Christine Francis, and honored to have been published alongside so many inspiring ASP faculty nationwide!
The Learning Curve (Summer 2016)
Taking the July Bar Exam? Feeling like you are way behind on your bar review schedule? Have the sense that you’ll “never learn it all” ? You are not alone! I have been hearing from dozens of students in your same boat. Here are some tips to stay on course:
For more Bar Exam Success Strategies, check out Pass the Bar: A Practical Guide to Achieving Academic & Professional Goals
If you think “success” means never failing, think again. Learn from your so-called “failures,” and far from failing, you actually give yourself the power to transform the past into steps on the path to future successes.
What are you battling? Where are your struggles? Do you have defined goals? Are you getting the help you need? Is the day sometimes just too much to handle? You might think these are questions to ask someone who is falling apart. No. All of these are questions we might ask successful people.
In other words, successful people still struggle, stress, and fail. Often, they fail repeatedly. But what makes someone successful is that he or she gets back up after falling down, problem solves and tries again; no falling into the traps of self-doubt.
Why is it so hard? It may look like other people have it so much easier than you do, like they never fail or stress. If that’s what it looks like, you may not know the person that well. You may just be looking at their social media and inferring from the stories they are sharing that all is perfect. Dig a little deeper. Everyone who has ventured to achieve falls down from time to time. Usually, people who think a lot, people who are movers and shakers, have deep concerns. Some worry about family. Others about money. Some stew about co-workers and work politics. Some have health problems. Others obsess about fitness.
Some measure of worry can be empowering: plan for the worst and hope for the best. Knowing what you will do in worst case scenarios, and knowing you will be OK, can be tremendously empowering. The key is to use failures and stressing about failures as tools to empower rather than obstacles that weigh you down. An excellent book that stands the test of time and helps readers control what the author called “worry” and what we might today call “stress,” is How to Stop Worrying and Start Living.
If you are dealing with school stress, professional stress, exam stress, parenting stress, or just battling generally to succeed while achieving peace of mind, give it a read or re-read.
Ask a college or professional ball player what he or she does after a bad game, or a losing season. Unless the person suffered a serious injury, likely the answer will be: I went back in and did my very best at the next game. I practiced, and practiced, and practiced more. I looked at what I did before and found ways to play better, stronger, harder, and smarter. As the late John Wooden put it, “Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Students, whether in high school, college, or graduate school, can take a page out of this sports book. When your grades are not what you know they could be or your scores on the SAT, LSAT, MCAT, or other standardized tests are not as high as you know that they could be, figure out a new game plan. (Same strategy if you fail the bar exam, get back in the game!)
Don’t quit and don’t wallow in frustration or self doubt. Channel your energy into effective practice. Read more. Take practice exams. Talk with professors who can help you see how to learn what you need to know. Find ways to study better, stronger, harder, and smarter. Another John Wooden reflection, “Don’t measure yourself by what you have accomplished, but by what you should have accomplished with your ability.”
There is an analogy between high stakes exams and high stakes sports competitions. Let us as students and educators, learn from great sports lessons. And, let us soar to success with hard, smart work. A third and final Wooden quote for the day: “Success comes from knowing that you did your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming.”
Today I blogged for readers who just found out that they failed the bar exam. The same sad, angry, and frustrated feelings occur when we experience other kinds of “set back” and the same opportunities to learn from the past and succeed going forward present themselves. Seize them!
So, if you are a law student, read this post as is. But if you are not a law student, substitute the words “failed bar exam” for any other “set back” you recently experienced and problem solve about turning that into a powerful step forward in the future. The same sorts of struggles and potential triumphs will most likely apply in some important ways to you.
Failed the bar exam? Re-frame this “set back” as an empowering opportunity to learn to succeed going forward.)
Bottom line, we all know the phrase turning “lemons into lemonade,” let’s try today to turn last year’s “set backs” into leaps forward for next year!
http://www.passlaw.com/organize-and-outline-before-writing
Here’s an example of why it helps to organize and outline. Version A below shows how you might “tell” a friend about your dinner, bouncing from appetizer to dessert then back to main course, throwing in a random note about the server, the company, etc. But if you are writing an exam or a paper to turn in to a professor, Version B is better. The clear organization of Version B shows the reader exactly where your thoughts are starting, heading, and concluding. The words, “The company was great, the food delicious, and the service superb” tell the grader/reader to expect that you will first discuss the company, then the food, and then the service. They know what to expect; you deliver. And, notice the difference in slang and tone in A versus B. Try hard to use a more professional writing tone when writing for school than you would, for example, when texting with friends.
Most of us do not “talk” like Version B. So, we have to take extra time before writing, to plot out (brainstorm about) everything we want to say, put it into a logical order (outline), then write using your outline as your “road map.”
Practice with topics you like and are comfortable talking about, such as food, and see if you can transfer the organizational process to writing for your courses and/or exams.
Version A
We ate at Chic. It was so good! Steak was awesome. It should get a Michelin star. Waiter was so cool, nicest dude ever, came back after every course asking how we were. He killed it. Chic is new restaurant. My soup was yummy. The strawberry shortcake rocked. Fresh tomatoes from vine and strawberries like they were picked just before dessert. Oh, the bread on the soup, actually on the side of the soup –appetizer was a soup and grilled cheese combo thing. That bread was freshly baked deliciousness. Waiter brought soup out in a kick-ass ceramic bowl and told us all about the origins of every food on the table. Steak was perfectly cooked, served on a cedar plank. Bill is doing well. So are Susie and John. We all picked up right where we left off. I used to work with them every day and haven’t seen them for ages, but we still have so much in common.
Version B
I went with Susie, Bill, and John to Chic Restaurant last Tuesday. We had a wonderful evening. The company was great, the food delicious, and the service superb.
The company: Susie, Bill, and John
Susie, Bill, and John are former co-workers. They are each funny and bright. We used to work side-by-side every day, and it was heart-warming to catch up with them and realize we still had so much in common.
The food: stylish comfort cuisine
This new restaurant served “comfort foods” in truly a chic manner. (They earned their name as Chic Restaurant.) For my appetizer I ordered a mouthwatering tomato bisque garnished with rustic grilled cheese. It was presented in beautiful ceramic dishes with a garnish of fresh herbs. The cheese, a sharp cheddar, was perfectly melted in between two slices of a right-out-of-the-oven sourdough delight. That bread was amazing. It reminded me of the safety and security of Mom’s after school snacks with the exquisite flavors of gourmet bread, cheese, and vine-ripened tomatoes. My main course was a perfectly cooked and seasoned steak, served on a cedar plank. And, my dessert was an outrageously whipped cream covered strawberry shortcake. I shared it, but could have eaten the whole thing myself it was so tasty.
The service: 5 Stars
The fellow who waited on our table, it seemed, knew every item on the menu. He not only described in detail how every dish was prepared but told us the origins of all the ingredients, where the produce was grown, where the meats were raised, and more. He made us feel welcome, and continued to be attentive throughout our entire meal. The graciousness and knowledge of the server helped make the entire dining experience a truly lovely one.
I am not sure what the newspaper reviews of Chic Restaurant will look like, but in my book it should definitely get a Michelin star.
You have one final on Monday, another on Thursday and then two the following week. Oh, and in between you have a paper to finish, you have to pack to move back home for the summer, and a bunch of other commitments. What to do first? Do you ever feel paralyzed?? This is perfectly normal. Finals are stressful, and tough! No one can tell you exactly what to do when for success, but here are some thoughts and strategies to help you make an effective game plan:
These are a few strategies for success. Write in and share your favorite exam time tips!!
A colleague told my students to go to observe court proceedings, and introduce themselves to judges. He said that most judges love to speak with and advise students (while they are still in school and still “cute”). Ironically, just days after my colleague’s remarks, a judge friend of mine offered to speak in my class. Without any sort of compensation, simply out of his generosity of spirit, this judge drove hours to give of his time to a group of future lawyers.
A few days ago I read that the great drummer Charlie Watts, visited students at the Frost School of Music at the University of Miami. According to the University of Miami News and Events, “Watts, one of the founding members of the Rolling Stones, spent an hour afterward graciously talking one-on-one with students, posing for selfies and photos, and talking shop about drum gear, life on the road, and his love of jazz.” http://news.miami.edu/stories/2016/03/rolling-stones-legend-jams-with-frost-students.html I can’t imagine a greater honor for any music student!
If there is anyone you are interested in talking with, anyone whose life or work you want to learn more about, try. Ask to meet someone for coffee, or invite an accomplished person to come speak to your class. The worst someone can say is that he or she is busy. And, you would be surprised at how many super stars (famous or otherwise) would be delighted to share their experience and wisdom.
Many law students and college students are in the home stretch now, with final exams in the next two months. That seems like a long way off. It is not. Now is the time to start thinking about finals –not the week before the exam.
It is an empowering feeling to walk into a final exam ready and prepared to the best of your ability. It is an uncomfortable destructive feeling to go into an exam knowing you are winging it. The choice is yours. Start now!
How to take advantage of the lead time?
Future posts will provide other final exam preparation tips, but, for Today’s Tip of the Day, as part of your slow and steady final exam preparation:
Set yourself up for success. Start on finals preparation now!